About the song
Patty Loveless and her evocative track, “I’m That Kind Of Girl.” For those of us who appreciate the nuanced storytelling and raw emotion that only the best country artists can deliver, Patty Loveless stands in a league of her own. Her voice, steeped in bluegrass and mountain music traditions, possesses a remarkable ability to convey both vulnerability and fierce resolve, often within the very same breath.
“I’m That Kind Of Girl” was released in 1993, as part of her critically acclaimed album Only What I Feel. By this point in her career, Loveless had already established herself as a force to be reckoned with, consistently pushing the boundaries of mainstream country while staying true to her roots. This song, penned by Matraca Berg and Gary Harrison, is a perfect example of her willingness to tackle complex emotional landscapes with unflinching honesty. It’s not a simple love song, nor is it a straightforward breakup anthem. Instead, it delves into the intricacies of a woman’s character, her experiences, and the kind of love she’s capable of giving and receiving.
What makes this song particularly resonant for an audience with a bit of life under their belts is its mature perspective on relationships. The narrator isn’t a naive dreamer; she’s someone who has lived, learned, and now understands the depth of her own capacity for love and commitment. The lyrics paint a picture of a woman who is fiercely loyal, deeply caring, and perhaps a little bit old-fashioned in her devotion, but certainly not in a way that suggests weakness. “I’m not one for games,” she seems to say, “but if you’re looking for true, enduring love, I’m your woman.” This sense of authenticity and a clear understanding of one’s own identity is something that tends to develop with age and experience, making the song’s message all the more powerful.
Musically, “I’m That Kind Of Girl” is a testament to the understated elegance that defined much of 90s country. The production is clean and tastefully arranged, allowing Loveless’s vocals to shine without distraction. The instrumentation is classic country – a subtle drumbeat, a prominent steel guitar weaving melodic lines, and a steady bassline providing a firm foundation. There’s a certain unhurried quality to the tempo, allowing the listener to absorb every word, every turn of phrase. And then there’s Patty’s voice – a marvel of control and heartfelt delivery. She imbues each line with such conviction, effortlessly conveying the strength and tenderness of the character. It’s a performance that reminds you why Patty Loveless is celebrated as one of country music’s most expressive and profound voices, and why “I’m That Kind Of Girl” remains a truly timeless piece.
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Lyrics
There’s a man in a stetson hat, howlin’ like an alley cat
Outside my window tonight
Sayin’, “baby, put on something hot, meet me in the parking lot
About a quarter to nine”I get the feelin’ that he’s never read romeo and juliet
I’m gettin’ tired of these one night stands
But if you wanna make a real romanceI’m that kind of girl, i’m that kind of girl
I ain’t the woman in red, i ain’t the girl next door
But if somewhere in the middle’s what you’re lookin’ for
I’m that kind of girl, yes i’m that kind of girlLet me tell you that i like my lovin’ just as much as any woman
But i’m drawin’ the line
A little sensitivity always seems to get to me every time
I’m a sucker for a love-sick fool
The kind that carries all your books in school
I’m getting tired of these one night stands
But if you’re lookin’ for a real romanceI’m that kind of girl, i’m that kind of girl
I ain’t the woman in red, i ain’t the girl next door
But if somewhere in the middle’s what you’re lookin’ for
I’m that kind of girl, yes i’m that kind of girlI’m that kind of girl, i’m that kind of girl
I ain’t the woman in red, i ain’t the girl next door
But if somewhere in the middle’s what you’re lookin’ for
I’m that kind of girl, yes i’m that kind of girlI’m that kind of girl, oh whoa
I’m that kind of girl, oh whoa
